Asian Girls Dating is becoming very popular !
Until a good friend suggested that we try it. I had to admit, I
was curious, but wasn’t online dating for hideous losers and
people who had something to hide? Wasn’t it only for those who
couldn’t get a date the ‘old fashioned’ way?
I let my friend talk me into browsing some pictures on one of
the more popular dating sites. I had to say, there were some
pretty decent looking men on there.
Their profiles made them sound like fairly mentally stable human
beings. I had to admit that the single thing was getting really
tedious.
I had done the bar scene (as we all have), had friends try to
‘hook me up’ with some other dateless, picky single person
(though, why some of them figured they had the right to be
picky, I have no idea), with no success.
Online dating, here I come. I figured “What do I have to lose?”
At the absolute worst, I’d meet more of the same type of losers
that I’d been meeting. At best, I’d meet someone that I was
actually compatible with who could also relate to me.
I had another dilemma with regard to the dating thing. I had
been divorced for about a year at the time, and I have 2
children. Now, I know that you ladies who are divorced with kids
can completely relate to what I’m saying here.
Finding a decent man is difficult enough, add to that the fact
that I’m looking for a decent man whom I can trust to be around
my children. Finding a man anywhere on this planet, that I
wouldn’t mind having my son emulate, is like trying to find a
pair of Manolos on sale at Sears.
Anyway, I signed up with my friend on one of the ‘bigger’ dating
sites. I met one dude, who said in his profile that he was
5′10″, with an athletic build. He had an attractive face, he was
divorced, and he had 3 children who were presently in his
custody.
He sent me an email. We corresponded via email for about 2
weeks, after which time, we decided to meet for lunch at a local
restaurant. He arrived at the restaurant earlier than I did.
Early enough to have been already seated when I got there.
He barely stood up to shake my hand upon saying ‘hello’, which I
thought was a little weird, but whatever. We talked from lunch
time until the hour turned into dinner time.
The conversation was going so great, that we decided to stay for
dinner, after which time, we decided to take in a movie. When
the waitress brought the bill, he paid it and as we stood up to
leave, I saw why he was already seated at the restaurant when I
got there, and why he didn’t fully stand up to greet me.
This dude was about 5′7″ tall! Now, I’m 5′4″, and in the boots
that I was wearing, I was nearly taller than he was! I was so
cheezed that I immediately lost my taste for the movie, made up
some excuse about not feeling well all of a sudden (it must have
been the fish), and boogied on atta’ there.
On my way home, I thought, “Is this what online dating is?
Dating loser after liar, never finding that ‘one’?” I’m not
saying that this dude was a loser because he was short.
The entire problem for me, exists in the fact that he LIED. I
can’t stand liars. If he lied about something as obvious as his
height, what else would he lie about?
I learned very quickly that when it comes to online dating, one
has to be extremely specific about what one wants, and one has
to stick to her guns. Not that some of those who read those
specifications give a hoot anyway.
I put in my profile that I wasn’t interested in dating anyone
over 45, and I got mail from men well past that age on a regular
basis. I learned that I had to be assertive almost to the point
of being aggressive when it came to dating online. I had to say
what I meant, and mean what I said.
As a result, I’m dating someone (8 months now) who meets every
piece of the criteria that I set out to find in a man. He’s
physically attractive (Yes, it DOES MATTER), and Lord help me,
he’s as smart as a computer (brains makes me weak).
He’s also an amazing person inside, and he gets along well with
my children. We live at completely opposite ends of the city,
and if it weren’t for bumping into each other online, I’m sure
we would never have met.
I chose to think about online dating as follows; when I’m in a
bar, and some loser tries out his lame pickup line on me, I have
to respond to him in some manner, right? When I’m dating online,
I don’t have to respond at all! I have more men to choose from
than those in my immediate circle of friends and associates, and
am able to choose from as far away as I want to.
If you’re thinking about doing the dating thing online, go for
it! If you’re smart, you have nothing to lose, and absolutely
everything to gain.
I’m Dao Jones from Thailand, founder of Asian-Girls-Dating.com.
A unique dating site with writing, dating and culture tips, as
well as lots of information about the special characteristics of
Asian girls.
If you want to know more about Asian girls go to my favourite
pages :
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May 22 2008 02:27 am |
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Couples planning to get married who are stuck for an idea about what gifts to hand out to their guests should consider supplying edible wedding favors. Normally they are of the sweet variety but there is no reason why savory favors cannot be supplied. If you have a special wrapper made up it will look that little bit special and even a simple bar of chocolate will be a popular choice. Filled chocolate whether white, plain or milk will always be a favorite but you can improve on this by having a peanut or almond center. Many companies exist that can create special wrappers that should have details of the wedding printed on them even if everything else is from a standard template.
If you are going as far as personalizing the wrapper, then why not have your picture printed on the wrapper to really impress your guests! Why not have a tin filled with different types of candy as your edible wedding favor to your guests. Guests are more likely to hold onto the tin as a keepsake if there is a reminder of where they were given it so placing the wedding details on the tin makes sense. Tins are always useful so once the candy has been eaten, it can be used to store many small items that might be lost otherwise. Candy is still the most popular choice of edible wedding favor and it will probably continue to be whilst we all enjoy sweet foods.
People that cannot make up their minds how to present the candy should consider placing it decorative bowl n the center of the table. Otherwise a small container, which can be themed if appropriate, can be used instead. Then the guests can fill their containers with the candy before they leave the reception later. A good alternative to candy as an edible wedding favor like these Fortune Cookies Favors which most people enjoy. These can also be presented in a box or a tin with details of the wedding printed on them as a special keepsake for the guests.
May 17 2008 05:26 am |
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Costume contacts have always been a favorite tool of movie
costume designers. What makes a werewolf appear like a real
monster and not just an actor in a costume? The eyes, of course!
The eyes make the entire image seem real and very believable.
But the days when theatrical lenses were available only to movie
stars are long gone. Now everybody can get a pair of costume
contacts that makes their eyes appear bright and inhuman. The
only limit is your imagination.
Many people think of theatrical contact lenses only at Halloween
time. But there is no reason why you can’t wear them just for
going out to the club. If your eyes look like you just came back
from Dune, you can be sure that your appearance won’t go
unnoticed.
What are my choices?
There are many costume lenses on the market; the most popular
brands are Crazy Lenses, by Cooper Vision, and Wild Eyes, by
CibaVision. Both Crazy Lenses and WildEyes offer bright,
exciting designs. Their lenses are also comfortable and
affordable.
If you type “costume contact lenses” into a Google or Yahoo
search, many different collections will show up. Some of them
offer a great look for a reasonable price. However, you should
always bear in mind that most paints are toxic; so some of the
lenses on offer might seem beautiful, but the could also
irritate your eyes. It is always best to go with costume
contacts produced by major contact lens manufacturers.
And for a particularly magnificent effect, you can get scleral
contacts. Unlike ordinary color contact lenses, sclerals cover
not only the colored part of your eye, but the entire visible
portion of your eye. Sclerals create a knock-out effect. The
only draw back with scleral contacts is that they are awfully
expensive.
You can also get custom-made costume lenses. This way, you can
be sure that nobody would have eyes like yours, and you can have
any design imaginable.
You can see pictures and reviews of different costume contact
lens collections at
www.1-contact-lenses-consumer-guide.com/costume-contact-lenses.ht
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Do I need a prescription for costume contact lenses?
Most brand name costume contacts come in Plano (no vision
correction) as well as with corrective powers. And whether or
not you need visual correction, you should ask your eye doctor
to fit costume lenses for you. Even if you have perfect vision,
it is best to see an optometrist first.
Can I see while wearing theatrical contacts?
Yes, you can. Even though the lens is completely opaque, its
center is clear so you can see. The only exceptions are
white-out contacts, which create the effect of blind eyes. In
this case, the entire lens is fully opaque so, unless you want
to find out how it is to be blind, you should wear a white-out
contact lens in one eye only.
Are costume contacts safe?
There are many FDA warnings about the dangers of costume lenses,
although the lenses themselves are usually not to blame.
Unfortunately, some people wear their costume contacts for
several days straight, or put them in without washing their
hands first, or swap the lenses with their friends, and then
blame the theatrical contacts when they get an eye infection.
The truth is that if you get reputable brand name costume lenses
and take proper care of them, costume contacts are as safe as
any other type of contact lens.
Here are 5 simple rules, to keep costume contact lenses safe:
Don’t wear your costume contacts for longer than a few hours
Don’t swap them with other people Order your lenses from your
doctor’s office or a reputable online retailer. Contacts sold in
costume shops or flea markets might be of questionable quality
Have an optometrist fit you with theatrical contacts Clean your
costume lenses properly
How do I take care of my costume lenses?
Novelty contact lenses don’t require any special care; you
simply treat them the same way as you would treat any contact
lenses.
All you need is a multi-purpose solution and a contact lens
case, which you can get in any chemist shop. Rinse your lenses
in the solution before inserting them in your eyes, and don’t
forget to wash your hands before handling the lenses.
When you’re not using your costume lenses, keep them in the
solution, in their case. It is recommended that you change the
solution at least once a week, if you don’t use them for long
periods of time. But who would bother? If you have to wear
contacts that have spent a month or so in their case, just give
them a double rinse in fresh solution.
Apr 12 2008 04:17 pm |
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